Last time I was trying to drive home the points on what women really want from guys. I was able to analyse a few points which is as follows:
- Drama of all forms
- Something different in a desirable way
Today I will be discussing on the downside of beauty which is still on what women really want. Before I continue, I will want you to think of any beautiful powerful woman you know, in any industry be it music or fashion or politics. Check the men in their lives, lets use Hollywood power brokers- say Beyonce. What do you think girls like Beyonce or Madonna want in a man or that nice girl you have been seeing around but never had the mind to do the walk, My mentor D"Angelo would say its a dark side of a woman. This dark side is secretly wanting a man who is in control of himself, his world and hers too.
This secret is a secret women never easily admits sometimes even to themselves but unconsciously, they know as a matter of certainty that this is something they really want.
This desire in them makes them hold a strong inner disdain for the weak men, the man that gives in to their whims and fancies. Thats when you get labels like "John Shawama" or boy-toy and all her girlfriends will know you and look at you as someone that's has lost it anytime you come around.
Men are always licking asses because they are afraid of upsetting the woman "oh! maybe she might get angry and leave", I use to think same but ironically I lick no ass anymore and they never leave or even get upset.
Sometimes i want to cry watching some men lick asses, even when a woman is clearly being bitch intentionally. Anytime You find yourself in such situations, just know you have put yourself in a bad situation because licking a woman's ass is bad for you, bad enough for her and bad for the relationship if there is even any.
If you don't learn anything today, Learn this: Never let a woman act bitchy without you calling her on it, just be sure you do it in a subtle and cool way.
Its called being different in a cool way remember. Treat her like you would treat your sister or your friend if they are messing up with you, like she is no different person. Make her understand its for her own good and that ordinarily, you would have ignored her. Tease and make fun of her insecurities in a playful way sure to amuse them. Make fun of the men that kiss her ass and put her beauty in a new way. In a way she never always have men treat her, you treat her like an everyday friend, this is because every other man she have met acted towards one thing: licking her ass and trying to get her to bed as soon as she replies to his hello.
Women can sleep with rich men or very handsome guys or actors, influential people who never treats them well just to satisfy what I will call their Egoistic and Physical drives. I will explain these drives in my next post.
But at the end of the day, A guy that looks average, pays his basic bills, takes care of himself(we will talk about this in another post), cocky and funny, a guy that is direct and challenging, confident and is in control, a man that is always a challenge to her and will never kiss her ass will always be more appealing to a woman than any rich or "actor" douchbag.
That's why you see people like Jenifer Lopez or Madonna and a whole lot of influential and beautiful woman settle with a nobody- its because they make them feel different, they challenge them.
This difference brings us to my third point CHALLENGE, this is what beautiful women never gets.
they always had their way but you are different so now you are a challenge to her. you are a drama and she wants to know why, she wants to know aht makes you thick.
I lot of time, I have already bedded a woman before she even get to understand me or what is happening to her, this is magic.
I do all i have told you here and i dont just win their body, I win their interest and fascination. This also help me to keep their stupid behaviors in check while allowing me to steer the relationship where ever i want to.
Read these and read meaning into it because it works. it might now sound real but it is. its what i do everyday, ist my way of life now and am telling you bro, it works.
Till next time, I gotta run now.

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