WHAT DO WOMEN WANT IN MEN?

This is a question I thought had no answer. But of-course it has no definite answer but it has answers, answers that am sure is the opposite of what you have known all your life. We grew up to think girls like the nice guys, the guys that take them to dinner, the guys that are always at their beck and call but we were all wrong. Have you noticed how the good girls end up with the bad guys and the no goods? I remember way back in my secondary school, it was the bad guys that had the most beautiful girls. what amazed me more is how these girls know quite well the guy is a no good and have lots of girls around him yet she joins the flock, we the good guys were left with nothing more than dreams, sometimes wet. I never really put it into consideration until later in my life when I saw a girl swear (in front of her friends of which I was one of them) she will never in her right senses date one of my friends that was at that time a core player. It was not up to two months after that incident and she was warming my guys bed. she got so addicted to him that she was ready to walk down the aisle with him. Now ask me if my guy changed one bit, he was at that time my tightest friend so authoritatively, I can tell you he got worse when he started dating this girl and the girl always caught him but never left.

Does this make sense to you?
It will only make sense to you if you were a girl. What women like and want are things that you cant really put hands on, things that we guys don't really make sense of. Most times when I try to explain this to my friends, they see me as a mad man, as not making sense and yes, girls don't really make sense and i do not make sense to men but to women I do and it works. Girls, whether the sophisticated ones or the kpako ones, whether the introvert or the extrovert are full of drama, i would say all women are drama queens. let me tell you why all girls are drama queens. 

A woman wants a strong man in her life but she wants independence. 

A woman wants a guy other girls wants but one she has.. A player.

A woman wants a gentle cool guy yet her boyfriend is the opposite.

A woman wants attention but she does not want to be seen as being needy or a nag.

A woman wants drama because it fulfills a need for them and most men don't have that drama. 

Let me ask you something, what does football do for men? if you can answer that then that's what drama does for women. Every girl wants drama and drama is in different forms, a thousand forms.

Still on what girls want in a man, girls want something different in a Desirable way. No matter the caliber of girl I meet, am always different in a good way (sometimes bad). I always try to make her understand that she never met someone like me before. Sometimes I even tell them to their face. I say things she never heard before in  a very desirable way (its not a magical word, we will get to the koko very soon). My favorite is that I always try to point out to her that am the selector as women are programmed to think they are the ones that have the sole power of selecting the guy of their choice. Acting this way puts the girl on the edge and put her into an instant state of attention. And if what you told her is very desirably different, She will start seeing you like guru and women like that. It works on guys to or anybody when you tell them something about themselves they never heard before. Instantly they see you as a demi-god. 

Let me give an example, say I meet a very attractive girl and she starts acting all arrogant and full of her self, "Am sure that's not new"

"What re you talking about "she will say.

"Well this is what am sure you do all the time and men always buy into it, acting all pretty and not sending but I know something none of them know.. that behind all that, there is another side of you, a side that non of them get to see. I can bet you my Shoes (be sure its a nice shoe) right now  that I know something about you that no one who has only know you for 3 minutes has EVER Known>>> WAIT, SILENCE WAIT>>> you may act tough but deep down, you are extremely sensitive and kind. If someone says something negative to you, you might act as if you don't care.. but you will think about it all day and to bed. I know that secretly, you are as sensitive as a little girl, its just that most people never get to meet that part of you.

No matter how cold or arrogant a woman is, it will get to her and be ready for some heart felt conversation with a different woman altogether. 

we will continue on my next post, have to go now.. see you soon. Thanks