Last post I said I was going to talk about a very important topic which is "why are girls attracted to rich men, actors, handsome and influential men".
Lets get down to it straight away- first of all, there is what we call a celebrity crush factor to it; - Celebrity worship syndrome is an obsessive-addictive disorder in which a person becomes overly involved with the details of a celebrity's personal life and tends to always want to be under their influence. Without wasting much space, some girls fall into this category.
Now to the point we need; After much research focused mainly on African girls, women are attracted to fame and fortune because they actually believe that powerful, handsome, rich or celebrity men are more intelligent and more in control of their affairs. According to D'Angelo in Double Your Dating, he said women are genetically and socially programmed on an unconscious level to believe these men are more fun, more interesting and more able to give them the kind of lifestyle and feelings they want.
Robert Cialdini in his book Influence called this the 'Halo Effect'. simply put, humans naturally assume that attractive and powerful people are more smarter and more trustworthy than ordinary average people.
Simple check: How many followers does Kim Kardashian have on Twitter? I think more than 17 million. how many does Stephen Hawking, Am sure you don't even know him, I think he is America's best scientist now- he has around 200k followers so go figure.
The hard truth for us average men is that rich, powerful and famous guys will always have the advantage when it comes to women because of their assumed positive traits which are all ASSUMED AND PROJECTED.
But the good news is this- if you can learn to get a sisters attention and then give her the feelings that she always wanted and be the man she always wanted, she will treat you exactly the same way she would treat a famous popular and powerful man as well.
Sometimes we men think women are more selective when it comes to dating but its a total false. When a man is not physically attracted to a woman, the woman has a little option of getting the man unlike women; its very possible for a short bald man that is not rich to make a woman feel the same powerful feelings we do when we see a drop dead gorgeous woman.
In conclusion of this Episode, remember that women always have a reason for their actions in the dating world. anything they do no matter how feeble it might be has some positive intention behind it.
Remember women attaches more value to the way you make them feel much more than how fat you have in your bank account and how powerful or popular you are.
Remember to always pass that subtle message that you are the selector and not the "to be selected" when meeting a new woman.
Remember you should never kiss a woman's ass- doing everything and anything to please a woman is a killer pill for dating "NEVER PUT YOURSELF THEY". don't let her get away with being bitch without calling her to order, the perfect way is to do that in a funny arrogant ( we will talk about this behavior in subsequent posts) way.
Remember that you should never try to buy her attention with money and gift and favors- it backfires always. Women see this kind of behavior as a lack of confidence. Women want a guy who has enough confidence in himself to know that he can please her without pulling out his wallet.
Lastly- Don't assume a woman wants and needs are the same as your own.. This is because women have a different brain wiring' far different from yours. Instead of trying to understand what happens in their brain, learn to use how they behave to your own advantage and they will flock to you in droves.
Read these not as a Physics textbook or a rocket science note rather as something you can use in your everyday life to become the man you dream of being as regards women. It might not really make sense but it works.. Women's reasoning when it comes to dating don't really make sense to us men but we still date them..
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