WHAT DO WOMEN WANT IN MEN- PART 3

Hello friends, its been quite sometime, guess am catching the procrastination flu again but hopefully, after some inspirational write- up I did today (see here), i can say I have got my groove back.
Last post I said I was going to talk about a very important topic which is "why are girls attracted to rich men, actors, handsome and influential men".
Lets get down to it straight away- first of all, there is what we call a celebrity crush factor to it; - Celebrity worship syndrome is an obsessive-addictive disorder in which a person becomes overly involved with the details of a celebrity's personal life and tends to always want to be under their influence. Without wasting much space, some girls fall into this category.

Now to the point we need; After much research focused mainly on African girls, women are attracted to fame and fortune because they actually believe that powerful, handsome, rich or celebrity men are more intelligent and more in control of their affairs. According to D'Angelo in Double Your Dating, he said women are genetically and socially programmed on an unconscious level to believe these men are more fun, more interesting and more able to give them the kind of lifestyle and feelings they want.
Robert Cialdini in his book Influence called this the 'Halo Effect'. simply put, humans naturally assume that attractive and powerful people are more smarter and more trustworthy than ordinary average people.
Simple check: How many followers does Kim Kardashian have on Twitter? I think more than 17 million. how many does Stephen Hawking, Am sure you don't even know him, I think he is America's best scientist now- he has around 200k followers so go figure.

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT IN MEN Part 2

Its been a very busy weekend, a lot of backlogs on appointments and events. hope you guys had a nice and eventful weekend too. I hope you are not alone on your bed now, well if you are, I have something for you to rattle your mind a little.
Last time I was trying to drive home the points on what women really want from guys. I was able to analyse a few points which is as follows:

• Drama of all forms
• Something different in a desirable way

Today I will be discussing on the downside of beauty which is still on what women really want. Before I continue, I will want you to think of any beautiful powerful woman you know, in any industry be it music or fashion or politics. Check the men in their lives, lets use Hollywood power brokers- say Beyonce. What do you think girls like Beyonce or Madonna want in a man or that nice girl you have been seeing around but never had the mind to do the walk, My mentor D"Angelo would say its a dark side of a woman. This dark side is secretly wanting a man who is in control of himself, his world and hers too.

This secret is a secret women never easily admits sometimes even to themselves but unconsciously, they know as a matter of certainty that this is something they really want.

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT IN MEN?

This is a question I thought had no answer. But of-course it has no definite answer but it has answers, answers that am sure is the opposite of what you have known all your life. We grew up to think girls like the nice guys, the guys that take them to dinner, the guys that are always at their beck and call but we were all wrong. Have you noticed how the good girls end up with the bad guys and the no goods? I remember way back in my secondary school, it was the bad guys that had the most beautiful girls. what amazed me more is how these girls know quite well the guy is a no good and have lots of girls around him yet she joins the flock, we the good guys were left with nothing more than dreams, sometimes wet. I never really put it into consideration until later in my life when I saw a girl swear (in front of her friends of which I was one of them) she will never in her right senses date one of my friends that was at that time a core player. It was not up to two months after that incident and she was warming my guys bed. she got so addicted to him that she was ready to walk down the aisle with him. Now ask me if my guy changed one bit, he was at that time my tightest friend so authoritatively, I can tell you he got worse when he started dating this girl and the girl always caught him but never left.

Does this make sense to you?

Why all this?

I know a lot of peeps would be wondering why this? whats the guy talking about? I hear a lot of that everyday, from my Thomas friends to ordinary people that approach me for direction on how to meet women. I remember when i decided to deal with this area of my life: dating. I stumbled on a lot of books both hard copies and online. You cant imagine I read the Arts Of Seduction two times yet i could not figure it out. Now am saying Art Of Seduction is not a good book but just reading art of seduction will only push you a few little steps in mastering the art of dating.

Let me tell you a hard truth, truth a lot of guys always dispute because it is hard to swallow. You cant get that woman of your dreams being an ODE (lets say ODE is someone that never gets it right) EXCEPT you are Brad Pitt, Jim Iyke, Van Vicker or probably you have Gates, Dangote or Danjuma attached to the back of your name. Some of us already accepted our faith that beautiful girls are not for us and believes like that. Another gospel truth is this: Some of us are waiting for that day when our bank accounts would be so fat that it will command respect but my brother, you might be in for a long wait and secondary, not all rich guys get the type of girls they really want. Girls comes in classes, in terms of beauty and in terms of brains then in terms of beauty and brains packed together. So what do we need? Why this? Am going to teach you how to get the beauty and brains kind of girls.

Intro...

Hi everyone, my name is Kanayo. Over the years I have watched guys fail at picking up girls, not just guy but myself. I watched myself fail so badly with women over the years. I was a Virgin till 23 and in this generation, that's weird for someone that went to a mixed school and grew up in a ghetto. I watched other guys get the girls I only dream of, You cant imagine how painful that was..That's me joking, I know you can imagine it because you have been they too and still they till now. It has happened to all of us but the good news is this: if I could overcome it and become the guy that eats girls for Dinner, you can too. Join me as we make that Journey to your dating freedom. feel free to talk to the Rabbai (My friends gave me that name because of my numerous teachings that them got results from).  Thanks