Thursday, 1 May 2014

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT IN MEN- PART 3

Hello friends, its been quite sometime, guess am catching the procrastination flu again but hopefully, after some inspirational write- up I did today (see here), i can say I have got my groove back.
Last post I said I was going to talk about a very important topic which is "why are girls attracted to rich men, actors, handsome and influential men".
Lets get down to it straight away- first of all, there is what we call a celebrity crush factor to it; - Celebrity worship syndrome is an obsessive-addictive disorder in which a person becomes overly involved with the details of a celebrity's personal life and tends to always want to be under their influence. Without wasting much space, some girls fall into this category.

Now to the point we need; After much research focused mainly on African girls, women are attracted to fame and fortune because they actually believe that powerful, handsome, rich or celebrity men are more intelligent and more in control of their affairs. According to D'Angelo in Double Your Dating, he said women are genetically and socially programmed on an unconscious level to believe these men are more fun, more interesting and more able to give them the kind of lifestyle and feelings they want.
Robert Cialdini in his book Influence called this the 'Halo Effect'. simply put, humans naturally assume that attractive and powerful people are more smarter and more trustworthy than ordinary average people.
Simple check: How many followers does Kim Kardashian have on Twitter? I think more than 17 million. how many does Stephen Hawking, Am sure you don't even know him, I think he is America's best scientist now- he has around 200k followers so go figure.